Oscar Night Special – Jack Carlson – former NHL and WHA player

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Oscar Night is Here. So Living Up to My Name talks Movies today

Tonight is Oscar Night! Earlier in my life, this was a day I would mark on my calendar and plan events with friends. I was a big movie fan and would set my goal to watch all of the “Best Picture” nominees before Oscar Night so I could make informed picks on my “Oscar Pool” prediction sheet. Nowadays, life has changed a little. I’m lucky to have heard of 75 percent of the nominees before Oscar Night and the chances that I have seen any of them? Very small.  The category that I am most familiar with is likely “Best Animated Film”. With 3 movie loving daughters in the house, it is likely that some of these nominees have been on screen here (more than 1 time).

And so as a throwback to the movie fan in me, and in celebration of the Oscars, I will pay tribute today to a former hockey player who turned down a role in the hockey classic “Slap Shot” to pursue a professional career.

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Jack Carlson with the Minnesota Fighting Saints

Jack Carlson was born in Virginia, Minnesota – a 3 hour drive north of the Twin Cities. As you can read in this article from Vintage Minnesota Hockey, the part of the now famous “Hanson Brothers” from the Slap Shot movies were based on the real-life Carlson Brothers from northern Minnesota. The movie has become a great success, even being considered as one of the greatest sports movies of all-time. And while I have never seen the movie myself, and cannot speak to its appropriateness, it is part of the story of Jack Carlson, who missed the filming of the movie because his career came calling.

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Carlson’s 2 brothers Jeff and Steve with Dave Hanson as Jack in “SlapShot”

In 1976, just as his brothers were learning about their upcoming movie role, the Edmonton Oilers were calling. Carlson had been playing for the Minnesota Fighting Saints in the WHA, but they were going to fold, making their players available for other teams to sign. That is when Edmonton came calling. Jack agreed to play for the Oilers, turned down the movie role and went on to play over 500 professional games between the WHA and the NHL.  And predictably, the part of the game that Jack Carlson was most known for was the rough stuff. He amassed 1111 penalty minutes in his 508 professional games.

As you can read in this article from Living Light NewsCarlson shares how lonely it was to play this game. H says “Looking back it was a pretty lonely life. The score was 6 to 1, you’re losing, and all of sudden the coach taps you on the back …“I wish I wasn’t that type of a player. I had some talent. I had some skills. But I wasn’t gonna be on a team scoring goals or setting up plays. I knew what my role was and so did everyone else,”

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Carlson with the Minnesota North Stars

Jack retired from hockey in 1987, but as you read in the article, the destructive lifestyle did not stop when his career did. One night, after separating from his wife, he is staying with a friend and one night, his life took a new direction.  “I was staying at a friend’s place and looking for something to watch on TV and here I click on the Billy Graham Crusade.” He spotted old friend and teammate Bill Butters speaking about how Christ had changed his life.”

Butters had not only been a teammate of Carlson’s but was also a scrappy player who fought his way through his career. He became a Christian helping out at youth hockey camps. Now he was sharing his story at Billy Graham crusades. Carlson called the number on the screen and the next day, Butters shared with Carlson about Jesus offer of forgiveness and salvation. Carlson accepted Christ as Savior over the course of their conversation.

These days, Carlson works as a referee, and helps Butters put on youth hockey camps though Hockey Ministries International.

My takeaways from Carlson’s story

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Billy Butters and Jack Carlson have lots in common, Born in Minnesota, teammates and believers in Christ. Butters led Carlson to faith in God.

1- Paying our Price – I like the analogy Butters uses to explain Jesus sacrifice. It is one I have used myself in explaining this concept to kids. It is like when the goalie on a hockey team commits a penalty. Someone else goes and serves the penalty in his place. That is what Jesus did for us. He served our penalty. But our penalty carried a much greater cost that 2 minutes out of the game. Our penalty was separation from God forever. And Jesus took that on for us. He sat in our penalty box and served the penalty in our place. What an amazing gift this is!

2- Lessons from your own Life –  Jack Carlson had the rare privilege of seeing a version of his life on the movie screen. I can’t imagine what it would look like to have my life depicted on a movie screen. What would be shown? If we step back and see what the story of our life is, how happy are we with what we see? I know that my character would be very flawed, would hurt others – sometimes accidentally and sometimes intentionally. What parts of our story would we want to share and what parts would we want to hide? The truth is that our story is known – the good and the bad – by the God who created the world and everything in it. And knowing us as He does, He still offers to serve our penalty for us and welcome us to join Him at His place forever. What an amazing love our God shows!

Exposed – Adam McQuaid – Boston Bruins

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Are you ready for some HOCKEY? Let’s take it outdoors!

Happy New Year from Living Up to My Name. When I was a teenager, I didn’t really get the new year celebration.  I didn’t really have much in my life to get excited about. I struggled to find a purpose for my life and every opportunity to look back at what the past year had held often left me feeling sad, unfulfilled and without direction. Then things started to change. God proved himself to be true, I met the woman that I would marry and my life began to have purpose. Steph and I were married on New Year’s Eve in 2004 and so for the last 11 years, ringing in the New Year took on a new and exciting meaning for me. And now I really enjoy this time of the year.

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Adam McQuaid scored the goal that sent them to the 2013 Stanley Cup Finals

And today, as a sports fan, hockey fan and Boston Bruins fan, I get to watch one of the coolest sporting events of the year (and I likely mean that both literally and figuratively) The NHL Outdoor Classic this year will be played at Gilette Stadium in Foxboro, Massachusetts.

And since the game will feature my favorite hockey team, imagine the giddy excitement with which I share the story of a member of the Bruins – Adam McQuaid.

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Stanley Cup Champion Adam McQuaid raises the cup in Vancouver in June 2011.

 

Born in Charlottetown PEI, (I also enjoy sharing stories of fellow Atlantic Canadians) McQuaid was a second round draft pick by the Columbus Blue Jackets in 2005. He was traded to the Bruins before playing a professional game and has been with them at the NHL level since the 2009-2010 season – including winning a Stanley Cup in 2011. But it was this article from the Boston Globe that really excited me about Adam McQuaid. In it we read about how McQuaid has grown to be more bold and outspoken about his faith in God and the role that it plays in his life. Injuries are a part of a hockey career and it was during the battles with various injuries that McQuaid sustained that his faith in God strengthened. The article says “He rededicated himself in the fog of doctor appointments and rehab, with pains and aches dragging on his mind and his career. This, he thought, maybe this is the reason I’ve had to go through all of this. Maybe it was to bring me closer to my faith.

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McQuaid’s injuries drew him closer to God

He has begun attending a non-denominational church in suburban Boston where he is able to remain somewhat anonymous. The article shares a funny story about one Sunday when he went to church. “At the start of the service, the congregation is encouraged to greet those in the seats near, to shake a hand or two. The man sitting one row behind McQuaid reaches out, looks in McQuaid’s eyes. “Basketball? Take an elbow to the face?” he asks, noting the blackened left eye and the stitches on the cheekbone.

McQuaid shakes the man’s hand. “Something like that,” he says.

Here are my takeaways from McQuaid’s story

1- Personal Journey with others – Our faith journey is one that we take alone. We have to chose to follow God and make our relationship with Him our own. But there are others around us that are also trying to live out the purpose for their life by following God. In this article, the players mentioned were encouraged and excited to find out about other believers in the league. McQuaid took lessons and challenges from the stories of Tony Dungy, Tim Tebow and Clayton Kershaw. It is this very reason that I started this blog in the first place. My faith is not in the men that I write about – they are all flawed like me – but a very real God is doing very real work in their lives and so their stories encourage me to follow God and thank Him for the way he works out His plan in our lives. How have you been encouraged in your faith walk by the stories of others? How can your story encourage others who are living for God around you. Let’s live out this personal journey of faith in God, but let’s also celebrate that there are others around us that are living for Him, too.  Let’s encourage one another and build each other up.

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McQuaid is known for his physical game. He is also becoming known for his boldness in discussing his faith in God.

2- Exposed – In the article, Dan Hamhuis,  talks about being a Christian in an NHL locker room. He came to the NHL with the Nashville Predators, and there were other believers there so “He was comfortable, he said, and “not afraid if it came up that I was going to be exposed (…) In a hockey dressing room if you do anything out of the norm you’re going to get called out on it, whether it’s a funny hat you wear, a new pair of shoes, or a bad haircut,” said Hamhuis. “So you’re always kind of on guard and aware of yourself. In matters of faith, it could be something that guys might give you a hard time about, and if you’re not real mature in your faith, you might not be comfortable defending it.” It can be a delicate thing. The Bible is clear that we are to acknowledge God before others and I know that to be true but to really share the truth of who God is and how important He is to your life requires an effort to not frighten or alienate people. We need to earn a place to be heard. Let’s be true to Him and not hide the importance He plays in our lives while being loving to others. Let’s allow our words and presence in the lives of people who don’t know God represent Him in a way that will invite them to see the difference He can make in their lives.

Stanley Cup Special Part 2 – In the Corner – Don Cherry – CBC Broadcaster

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Cherry (in his “Cherry blazer” with Coach’s Corner host Ron MacLean)

Last time I wrote about an icon of U.S. hockey broadcasting – Doc Emrick, and his faith in God.  Today, I will do the same north of the border.  I grew up watching Hockey Night in Canada on Saturday nights.  Coaches Corner was always an entertaining part of the program.  In that brief segment during the first intermission, host Ron MacLean and former NHL coach Don Cherry would give their opinion about something that was going on in the hockey world at the time.  Don Cherry tends to be a very divisive figure.  He is loud (both in voice and in wardrobe), opinionated, and outspoken.  He would occasionally spark controversy with his comments and people tend to either love him or hate him.  But enough people loved him that he was named to MacLean Magazine (no relation to Ron that I know of) as one of the 10 greatest Canadians in history.  I didn’t mind him most of the time.  He is entertaining and passionate about hockey and I can get that.

But imagine my pleasant surprise when I came across this video that he did with Canadian T.V. host Lorna Dueck

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Don Cherry as a player with the Rochester Americans

In this video, Cherry speaks of a desperate prayer that he made at the age of 36, worried about what the future would hold.  He felt God answer his prayer by telling him to “go back to hockey” and 2 years later, he is coaching in the N.H.L. In the book “Along Came God: Miracles in Everyday Life” by George Slater. Cherry tells his journey from being unemployed to His successful return to hockey.  The credit?  Cherry says “I remember my first game behind the Boston bench[…] I thought back to my room in Rochester where I couldn’t get a job sweeping floors and how I asked the Lord for help and to show me the way[…] In only three years He pointed the way back and I was on top of the world. In just three years, and they say there is no God!” The Lord rescued me in my darkest hour.  If you are having a hard time in life like I was and you believe, He will help you”.

Here are my takeaways from Cherry’s story:

1- Pray for Help and Be Willing to Work –  Cherry had reached his end.  He prayed for help and God directed him back to hockey.  But he had some work to do to get back in game shape.  He was 25 pounds overweight.  He was 36 years old.  But he worked hard to lose the weight and get back into game shape and made the team.  God has a plan and power to carry out that plan but he also gives us the chance to be obedient.  Cherry trusted God and went to work.  What has God called you to?  Are you ready to put in the work of obedience to Him?  If so, prepare yourself.  He can take us far beyond our greatest dream or our most extravagant imagination.

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Don Cherry the Coach. Behind  the bench of the Boston Bruins.

2- Ready to Give Back –  Near the end of the interview with Lorna Dueck, Cherry talks about speaking with kids, talking about the hard issue of suicide.  Now I don’t know how close Cherry was to going down that road, but he says repeatedly in the articles that I read that it was his darkest, most depressing time of his life.  That was when he called out to God and God answered his prayer.  Now he is speaking to those who are battling through some dark days.  He spoke in the interview of second chances.  We have all been given a second chance.  (and many more than that even).  We deserve death as a penalty for our disobedience to God, but Jesus paid that death penalty for us and offers us a second chance.

3- Who do you worship –  The interview and the stories that I read often referred to hockey as the national religion of Canada.  Sadly, I think there is some truth to that – but it is not just a problem of Canadian hockey fans.  We all have things that we worship and make more important than God.  Work, family, money, stuff, celebrities, just to name a few examples.  But in the end, all of those will fall short and let us down.  God is the only One that is worthy of our worship.  Let’s keep Him as the focus of our life and let’s save our worship for Him alone!

4- No expectation of perfection – The temptation can be to think that  so-and-so can’t possible be a Christian – look at what they say or what they do.  I’ve seen them ____ fill in the blank with a sin or behavior that is unacceptable for a Christian to do.  And there is something to be said about the fruit that our lives produce. But would I ever hate to have that lens pointed at my life.  Cherry knows that he is still messes up.  ““I always get a guilty feeling about them, and I try to smarten up the next time.”  I hope that we can all understand that we make mistakes and learn from them. 

Stanley Cup Special – Life’s not fair – Mike “Doc” Emrick – NBC Broadcaster

The Stanley Cup has a great way of reminding us that life is not fair.

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Phil Housley’s 1495 games is the most without winning a cup in NHL history

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John Adams’ got his name on the Cup before he played his 1st NHL game.

Let’s prove that point.  John Adams was the third string goalie for the 1970 Boston Bruins.  He was on the roster but wouldn’t play his first NHL game until 3 seasons later. He would only appear in 22 NHL games in his entire career.  But when the Bruins won the cup in 1970, Adams’ name was engraved on the Cup.  Contrast that with Phil Housley.  He played in 1495 NHL games with 8 different teams without playing for a Cup winning team.  That is the record for most games without a Cup.  It just doesn’t seem fair.

Mike Emrick  is a voice that hockey fans in the U.S.A. know well.  He is the primary voice for NBC’s hockey coverage so his voice is familiar.  But it was in a different setting recently where he used his voice to share another example of perceived unfairness.  Here is a message he preached at his home church in St. Clair Michigan as recorded on the Hockey Ministries International website.

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Mike “Doc” Emrick is the voice of hockey in the U.S.A. He is the primary voice for NBC’s hockey broadcasts.

Emrick shares the story of Brad Stuart who in 2008 was traded from the Los Angeles Kings to the Detroit Red Wings.  He played in only 9 games with the Red Wings in the regular season, but was with them for their playoff run in which they successfully won the Stanley Cup.  As the Stanley Cup winnings were divvied up and the rings handed out, Stuart received the same portion as those who had been on the team all season.  No one complained, no one really gave it a second thought.  Emrick compares that to the parable from Matthew 20 where a land owner agrees to pay some workers for a full day of work.  He goes back throughout the day to hire more workers.  At the end of the day, he starts by paying those who were latest to arrive a full days wages.  Those who put in a full day then expected a bonus.  When they were paid what they agreed to, they complained.  It is an interesting take on the story and a great demonstration of how the ultimate reward is shared equally among all who participated, regardless of their participation both in heaven and in hockey.

Continuing, Emrick shares the story of a boss of his who “was a big, bombastic man. He was not known by any of us as a Christian  At the boss’ funeral, he shared the story of his boss’ acceptance of Jesus as Savior in his last days.  It was met with many surprised, even disdainful looks from those in attendance.  And I know that we are all capable of the same.  It is hard to grasp a grace that extends to those who lead a rough or hard life, but come to faith in God after their indiscretions or in their final days.  I am guilty, too.  I know that writing this blog, I have come across the stories of athletes who have a checkered past, but have come to a true and genuine faith in God.  I am tempted to doubt the legitimacy of their faith or at least expect that I am somehow due a higher standing than them.  But that is flawed thinking.  I mean, are they deserving of any less reward than I am? No way.  I have my own checkered past, too.  I am a sinner who needed grace to be extended to me.  I still need it every day.  The plank in my eye clouds my vision and seems to magnify the specks in the eyes of others so it looks much larger than mine. (Matthew 7.3)

I appreciate the reminders like this message from a hockey sportscaster which reminds us to not get caught up in comparing ourselves to others or questioning who God offers grace to, and instead celebrate that we serve a God that is powerful enough to change all hearts and extend grace to everyone.

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Emrick’s love for his job comes from it being a calling from God

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Emrick preaching a challenging message at his church

Here are some points to ponder.

1- Our Great Savior – The amazing thing about Jesus is that He died to offer grace and forgiveness to all people.  I heard singer Derek Webb talk about having an awareness of our sin and when we come to terms with the depth of our sin, we begin to understand the greatness of our Savior.  Let’s be real with ourselves and understand the desperate need that we have to be saved from our rebellion, bad choices and mistakes.  As we understand our own desperate need for Him we can really celebrate that He DID pay the price and offers freedom from our sin. And whether we come to this understanding at a young age or in our last breaths, His offer remains vaild for ALL who chose to believe in Him.

2- Do you Love what you Do?  –  In this article from Geneva College, Emrick talks about doing a job that he loves.  He says A man is very lucky if God gives him a job he enjoys.’ I am lucky, that’s for sure. I know if it weren’t a calling, I would have probably found something else along the way. It is a wonderful job and I am grateful for it.  I wanted to do his job.  My dream in high school was to be a hockey broadcaster.  God however had different plans for me.  But I am OK with that. He has brought me to a job that I really enjoy and in the process he has brought out gifts and interests that I wouldn’t have guessed were in there.  What do you do? How has God led you to that place.  How can He use you for His purposes in the place he has put you?  God’s plan is the best and if you trust it and see it develop, be grateful for how He is at work!

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A Dream Come True – Malcolm Subban – Boston Bruins

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Malcolm Subban made his NHL debut with the Bruins last night

Last night, Malcolm Subban made his NHL regular season debut.  Even though I have never played organized hockey at any level (other than floor hockey at my church), I did grow up in Canada and had the dream of what it would be like to play in the NHL, so I’m sure that Subban has long imagined what it would be like to suit up and play at the highest level of professional hockey in a meaningful game.  And while the game didn’t go quite like I’m sure it did in those dreams – he surrendered 3 quick second period goals and was pulled from the game for a stretch before returning in the third period – the fact that he made it is an accomplishment, and the challenges he faced will motivate him I’m sure to keep working hard to be even more successful in future outings.

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Subban against the Blues last night

I am a lifelong bruins fan and since starting this blog, I have had the joy of sharing the faith stories of a couple of key players on my favorite team.  Tim Thomas was a focus during the 2011 Stanley Cup Championship season, and Jarome Iginla was featured here last year.  I love to share the faith stories of any player I read about, but it carries an extra joy when it is a member of a team I already cheer for.

So to that end, I welcome Malcolm Subban to the NHL with my beloved Bruins.  Malcolm was a first round draft pick in 2012 and played his junior hockey with the Belleville Bulls.  It was during his time with the Bulls that Subban came to realize the importance of faith in God.  As you can read in this interview with hockey journal, chapel is an important time for Subban. When asked what the best advice he ever received was, Subban said “Know(ing) that He (God)is always there and there for you to talk to. Always have faith in God and keep your faith strong.”

He has chosen to reflect that faith on his goalie masks as well.  Check out last year’s full mask pictures here and this year’s here.

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Subban’s 2014 mask Grim Reaper and Psalm 23

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Subban’s 2013 mask Grim Reaper and James 1.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My takeaways from Subban’s story:

1- Meet them where they are at –  I want to thank and acknowledge all the chaplains at all levels of sport.  What an important and fantastic work God is doing through you. The sporting world is busy especially at the pro levels with travel, public appearances, practice, games and media.  Even is high school, college and in Subban’s case, Major Junior hockey, these chaplains bring God into the business and offer athletes, coaches and referees a chance to connect with the Creator of the Universe.  I pray for reminders to take God to the world around me so that they can encounter Him and see Him transform their life.

2- God is with us and his enemy is after us – Subban’s masks show the angel of death, or grim reaper.  Also included on the mask are bible references or verses that talk about God being with us in the midst of harship, challenges and attacks.  It is good to remember that the devil is on the prowl, “looking for souls devour”  but also that God is with us and He will bring us strength and comfort.