Last time out, I shared some thought about one of my favorite bible stories. The woman who was healed by touching the edge of Jesus robe in the midst of a crowd. He gives her space to share her story and reveals that her faith has healed her.
All in all, it is an amazing story, however, not everyone in the crowd was happy for this to go down the way that it did. One man was likely preoccupied with a growing anxious tension in the midst of this miracle. In Mark 5.22, we meet Jairus – one of the synagogue rulers. He comes to Jesus and asks that He come and help his ailing daughter. Jesus starts on his way when the woman touches his garment and things grind to a stop. Now as discussed last time, the story of the woman is compelling and miraculous, deserving of the time and attention it gets.
But put yourself in Jairus’ shoes. The clock is ticking. You daughter’s health is getting worse. It is taking a long time for Jesus to make his way through this large crowd, and then everything grinds to a halt for this woman’s story to be heard. There is a lot of excitement as the crowd has witnessed this miracle and “the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came in fear and trembling and fell down before him and told him the whole truth.” (vs. 33).
Then, while she is still speaking, Jairus’ worst fears are realized. Someone arrives from his house, saying that his daughter has died and he needn’t trouble Jesus with this anymore. (vs.35). Imagine the grief that comes in waves over Jairus in that first moment. Grief is a funny thing. It catches you off-guard, and you don’t quite know which emotion to give its place first – anger, blame (of self or others), questioning, emptiness, despair. They all battle for a spot and leave your mind swirling. Jairus was likely processing these words and starting to feel some of these different emotions when Jesus, having heard what was said to Jairus, says something unexpected. In verse 36, Jesus tells Jairus “Do not fear, only believe”.
It is hard to tell, not being the one in the situation, if this would be comforting or confusing. You’ve just heard that your daughter is dead, and the hope you placed in Jesus is fading at the news. Then He tells you to hold on to that hope, that all is not lost. I don’t know what he was thinking, but I expect in the same situation, I would have been mostly grief-stricken, and maybe a little confused.
Jesus steps out of the crowd, allowing only Peter, James and John to come with him to Jairus’ house. When he arrived, there were people wailing and weeping (vs 38). Jesus utters another seemingly crazy statement – telling them that she is not dead, but simply asleep. They laugh at him, but he sent them out of the house, and with the three he brought with him, Jairus and the girl’s mother, He takes her by the hand and the daughter gets up. Mom and Dad were amazed and, no doubt, grateful.
Here are my takeaways from this story:
1- The limits of possible – Jairus was in a bad place throughout this story. His daughter is really sick. The text doesn’t let us know if she has been sick for a while or if it is a pretty new situation, but it is clear that Jairus is desperate for help – ready to do everything possible, everything in his power to make his daughter well again. And it appears that it doesn’t work – that it will fall short. The limits of the possible have been reached. But thankfully, our God is not restrained by our limits of possible. The Angel Gabriel tells Zechariah as much in Luke 1 when he reveals that Zechariah’s wife Elizabeth is going to be pregnant despite her advanced age. God is in the business of miracles and that allows us to…
2- Hold on to Hope – Hope can feel fleeting. Maybe the diagnosis or the prognosis is not good. Maybe a prodigal child is running further away. Maybe something that you have been hoping for and moving towards doesn’t seem to be working out. Maybe the loss that you have suffered and the grief that accompanies it is stifling and becomes the only point of focus you can see. “Just believe” – Those words can seem empty. But all hope is not lost. The only hope left is to draw closer to the Creator. He knows! He understands when we feel like giving up under the weight of the world. Jesus himself said in John 16.33 that this world “will bring trouble but take heart, I (Jesus) have overcome the world.” How do we hold on to hope? We draw close to Him, we pray, read our Bible, and allow the Creator of the universe to show us His love, comfort and plan to turn whatever we are going through into something that can be used for our good and His glory (Romans 8:28). There is not a magical way that removes the pain and hardship in this life, but there is a place where hope can be found, even in the smallest glimmers, in the midst of the challenges. Hold on to that and see Him show His love and faithfulness to help you see that He is there, inviting us to trust Him like He did with Jairus. Do not fear, only believe!