Football can be a brutal sport. Every year there are players whose lives are impacted by an injury in one way or another. Sometimes it will be the end of the season, sometimes it can lead to the end of a career. For Patriots Offensive Lineman Nate Solder the injury he sustained on October 11,2015 provided a way to be with his family during a particularly trying time.
In a win against the Cowboys, Solder suffered a tear in his right biceps that would cost him the remainder of the season. Eight days later, the 2011 Patriots 1st round pick out of University of Colorado would learn that his infant son Hudson had been diagnosed with a Wilms tumor (a rare form of cancer) on his Kidney. Solder, and his wife Lexi would see their 3 month-old son undergo a series of Cancer treatments. As the Patriots and Solder prepared for the Super Bowl last February (15 months later), Solder shared the lessons he has learned on this journey with his family. He says “We get caught up in our own personal issues, our own personal pains and sufferings, and we forget that there’s a lot of other people out there that are suffering. “We have an opportunity to help those people and not to get lost in our own pain.” He continues “It’s not just about suffering well in your own life,” he said. “It’s about entering into other people’s suffering, just as Christ would.”
Solder sees this challenge as another way that God has shown up in his life. The story of Hudson has resonated with people in a powerful way. Solder says “I think it was totally in the providence of God, as all things are.”… And after they came out publicly about Hudson’s condition, he heard from several parents who resonated with his story. “That was just one of the many ways that God’s used Hudson’s issue to touch other people’s lives. I don’t know why God does all of the things that He does, but it’s been an eye-opening experience, for sure.”
Where did this strength of faith come from? Well, remarkably, this hasn’t been the first encounter this young family has had with cancer. Just 3 weeks before Nate and Lexi were married, it was discovered that Nate had testicular cancer. He underwent surgery and treatment that has left him cancer free. In this article from Patriots.com we learn that dealing with his own cancer brought him a renewed trust and dependence on God.
The article says “And through the surgery, his recovery, his wedding, his championship season, and his imminent fatherhood, Solder revealed he has become something else in the past year: a renewed Christian. He found his faith strengthened by the cancer ordeal, and chose to be baptized again because he felt like he was making a conscious decision to recommit his life to his religious beliefs.`It happened so quickly,” added Solder, “I had such a minor case, I had such good care with the doctors and trainers here, the fact that Lexi is such a strong person, we were able to weather the storm, and our faith through the whole deal was made stronger. It was such a blessing to have that.‘”
Their faith and desire to be positive in the face of challenging circumstances have been noticed by the Patriots family who named Solder the winner of their Ed Block Courage award last season.
But far beyond success on the field, awards, Super Bowls or recognition, The new perspective that Solder has on life is his biggest takeaway. He says “I just know how frail everything is, how easily it can be taken away and how fortunate we are to be out here every single day. But I have my priorities set, and my top priority is God and then my family. When those things are squared away, everything else falls into line. My faith in the Lord is so much bigger than anything we’re doing here, so much bigger than the Super Bowl.”
Here are my takeaways from Solder’s story.
1- Striving– Why are we so inclined to think that fame, success and reaching the pinnacle of what the world seems to value will truly satisfy? Over and over again on these pages, I have come across stories of people who have learned that putting God first and living the way He desires of us is the best way to live. We can dress it up any way we want, but putting other things ahead of God is a recipe for disaster. We see it over and over in the Bible, and it is easy to see in our own lives, too. I pray that we may all be able to say, as Solder did, that our faith in the Lord is so much bigger than anything we are doing here. If we are going to strive, let’s strive to show His importance above all else in our lives.
2- Hidden Blessings – Solder suffered a painful injury that ended his 2015 season. But that injury turned out to be a blessing because it freed him up to be with his young family as they navigated through their son’s cancer diagnosis. For the Solder family, they found blessings in their hardship. Cancer diagnosis for Nate leads them to renewing their faith in God. An injury to Nate helps the family be together in a time of crisis. God uses all parts of our story to draw us closer to Him. Anything that does that is a blessing.
Sometimes, we get so caught up in our own world as we are trying to carve our spot, secure our place and build our legacy that it becomes hard to trust God’s plan. Sometimes, bad news helps us out. It invites us to trust in Him, lean on Him, cling to Him and know that with Him, all things are possible.